Wednesday, October 19, 2005

(again part 2) choices


For me, life is always about choices. From the morning I wake up, it is me who is supposed to decide how to start the day. In a wider perspective, there are choices that influence my life greatly. For example, what to do after graduation :p --oh, really, this matter keeps spinning around in my mind despite the fact that I want to graduate ASAP :)

Many times I feel like always making mistakes in choosing something that is very crucial. The choices that led me to be here. As neighbor's grass seems to be always greener, I often wonder how my life is going to be if I had chosen other choices. If only I could always remember that there is no trivial way in life, and one has its own blessing, I would know that even if I had a gift to turn into someone else, still, the other's grass would again be greener.

So, what I do when I realize that what I have decided is something definitely wrong? For hoping that I can turn back time is always nonsense, it is better for me to learn from the mistake and find a way to get out, which means other choices to choose! When the condition turns to be worse that I keep regreting instead of moving on, I remind myself that every choice made is (most always) the best I could decide, to the best of my knowledge at that time.

Then, what should I keep in mind when deciding something?
Well, considering all possibilities even the worst one, listening to people, realizing my need, learning past mistakes, collecting information, and praying. As everything in me has been all out to give the best, now let Allah take the rest.

2 Comments:

Blogger za said...

Des, orang kayak kamu aja masih merasa suka membuat kesalahan dalam mengambil keputusan? Padahal dari kacamata-ku (hmm kamu belum pernah pinjem kacamata-ku kan ya?), hidup mu udah bagai bintang yang bersinar terang. Lhah, gimana kalau nge-bandingin sama aku?

Soal rumput tetangga, memang ia akan selalu terlihat lebih hijau. Tapi aku sekarang lagi belajar menanam rumput di halaman sendiri dan rajin memberi pupuknya setiap hari.

10:38 AM  
Blogger vyx said...

Jangan pernah menyesali apa yang telah terjadi...
karena itu tiada guna...

belajar dari kesalahan masa lalu agar menjadi lebih baik di masa depan...

-vyx-

1:35 AM  

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